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Teleclass Excerpt with Sarah Hoskin Clymer

Friday, April 10th, 2009
Financial Alchemy Coach <br>Sarah Hoskin Clymer

Financial Alchemy Coach Sarah Hoskin Clymer

Last year I interviewed Financial Alchemy Coach Sarah Hoskin Clymer. She speaks from the place of becoming a Wealthy Woman. (Be sure to read her How to Become a Wealthy Womanon this blog.)

 

Our Q&A call–answering questions sent in by listeners–was one of my most popular teleclasses ever. Many of you have already heard my point of view through interviews, teleclasses and articles. It’s about time you heard from someone else…
  

Sarah: Money has been the biggest bane of my life. It was always the thing that I was working on as an adult. I tried to figure it out and affirm my way through it. You name it; I’ve done different things to get to what was at the cause of having so much struggle and pain around money.

Financial Alchemy came to me. It was one of those impulse things. I got on the website, ordered the products, then said, “What am I doing? I’m spending money. I can’t be spending money. This is crazy.” I knew it was right somehow, so I stuck with it.

That was just under a year ago. It was really out of doing a coaching session with you that I got to change my relationship with money. That allowed me to show up differently in the relationship. I finally understood that I could work myself for the next bazillion years, but as long as my relationship with money was the same, I couldn’t show up any differently.

No matter what I did, no matter how many affirmations I said, and no matter how many beliefs I got in touch with and “tried” to change, it was still the same basic relationship.

It was an abusive relationship with money. Money was horrible to me. It was demeaning and so arrogant. All I knew how to do in the face of that kind of energy was cower. It was no wonder I avoided money. I didn’t want to get anywhere close to it. It was terrible energy to be around.

You went through the different kinds of money. I was also a spender. As soon as it came in, I’d spend it. That was a way of getting rid of it and avoiding it, too. To actually have money meant I had to be responsible and manage it. I thought, “No.” I would send it right back out.

When I finally got to change the relationship I had been living in and literally get rid of the old relationship to bring in a new one, all of a sudden, not just money changed, but my life began to change. It was maybe because money was at the core of so many of my struggles.

I think it’s available for anybody. Money is such a huge part of our lives, no matter what. We all have to deal with money. To actually get to change that relationship, and have it become a loving, empowering, welcoming, safe relationship, changed the platform that I’d been standing on all those years.

Morgana: How did money connect with the other areas of your life?

Sarah: I really believe that because it was so core and central for me that it was like it had a thread or hook in every area. I could be doing something that would seem unrelated, but as soon as money came into the conversation, I would shrink back down. I’d grow small and go unconscious. I’d forget what I was doing or just back out of the game altogether.

It happened in so many places. Money was the biggest, most menacing and critical voice inside of me. It was my biggest gremlin.

Morgana: I’m so glad you brought that up. It isn’t just about the money. People who hear us talk about Financial Alchemy think that all we coach about is the money. That’s just the entryway.

Sarah: It’s the door in.

Morgana: It is that punishing, abusive voice that hurts how you feel about yourself.

Sarah: It then affects every area of your life. When you don’t have money to come back to and rely on, and you don’t feel in control or on top of it, everything crumbles. It was at least like that for me.

When I created this new relationship, it literally just started to ripple out, and one thing lead to another. I became involved with the work of Financial Alchemy then thought, “I could be a coach in this? Sign me up!” That was another one of those impulsive moves.

Then that was like I thought, “If I’m going to be a Financial Alchemy coach, I’d better make sure all my coaching skills are really solid.” That led me to seek out training as a co-active coach. One thing has lead to another.

I’m certified as a co-active coach. I’m certified as a Financial Alchemy coach. I have clients. I’m advancing in my coaching right now. I’m having so much fun. I’m working with people. I’m getting to do what I’ve always wanted to do. It was with Financial Alchemy that I actually took the steps to do it.

Morgana: People come to me and have an idea of their money. They listen to the teleclass and say, “My new money is this,” but it’s still intellectual.

Sarah: It can’t be intellectual. It has to be from that deep place within.

Morgana: You’ve both been a client and gone through my coach training. What did you learn?

Sarah: I did it all myself before having coaching because that’s what I do. I try it on. What I’ve experienced in both being coached and becoming a coach is the richness and depth a client can go to with a coach.

I want to share a story about one of my clients. When we were going into her financial background, what showed up in the session is that her father committed suicide because of his relationship to money.

That was heavy stuff. I can even feel it in my voice as I speak. The pain was so present in her family of origin. She intellectually understood it. Together as coach and client, a truth got to be revealed like it had never been revealed.

Morgana: Her money was a murderer. If you think about it, her money killed her father.

Sarah: Yet we forget that we don’t have to be in that relationship. We stay in this relationship even though it’s so detrimental for us. When we opened that up and created something new for her, her voice and her whole being lightened up. A whole sparkly clear, fun and dancing energy came in for her.

Morgana: Did you see the movie “The Secret”?

Sarah: Yes.

Morgana: How is that different from just having a positive attitude and a good feeling about money from time to time?

Sarah: In my experience, until you get to the core of it, you’re just putting Band-Aids on the situation.

There’s the analogy that when you have a glass of water and put dark ink in it, it becomes really dark. If you keep putting water in to flush out the ink, it becomes clear again.

This is a much more direct way into what’s really going on for someone. You can release that so much more quickly. Why spend years pouring water in to clear it out when you can go in and get to the heart and soul of it?

Morgana: It’s like digging out the poison instead of putting a Band-Aid on the poison, which only keeps it in.

Sarah: For me it did. I could say all the affirmations in the world, but when my relationship was still such a scary, abusive and horrible relationship, I couldn’t show up any differently within that. I had to get out of that relationship and create a new one. Now all the affirmations are flourishing.

Morgana: That’s because they’re true. We went back. We created your first new relationship with money. About six months later, it wasn’t working for you anymore. What happened?

Sarah: It lost its juice, but I didn’t lose my faith in the process. I knew I had to go back in, just like you were saying about Mercury retrograde. If it’s not working, we have a choice. We get to go back in and recreate.

I did it again, and I got this really nice, little-old-man kind of energy. He was really sweet. He was just a nice old man, but no juice.

Then I went back in and created something that had juice, zest, fun and energy behind it. I felt myself sitting up and saying, “Oh, yes! I like this money! Not only do I like him, but I know he really loves me. He wants to see the best in me come forth.” If I could go back to a moment, it was that moment.

 

FYI: The full transcript and mp3 for this teleclass, as well as the other teleclasses in the Financial Alchemy series, and my other best selling Financial Alchemy products, is now available in my new “Starter Pack”  for those who aren’t ready to invest in coaching but want to get started, and those who have already coached and want to take it deeper still.  Look at what you get at www.secretsofamoneymagnet.com.

Copyright Morgana Rae 2009, obviously. If you wish to reprint an article from this blog, you must credit it to Morgana Rae and include this blog’s url. Thanks!

Becoming a Wealthy Woman: Growing Up and Loving It! (by Sarah Hoskin Clymer)

Thursday, December 18th, 2008

Are you a Wealthy Woman?

Have you read books, gone to workshops, done “prosperity work”, said affirmations, and worked on your issues with money?
Has anything changed…really changed?
Have you even gotten close to the crux of what was going on?
Are you a Wealthy Woman or are you still trying to “figure it out”?

In Morgana Rae’s Financial Alchemy workbook, Morgana says that the “area of your greatest pain may be the key to what you want the most.”

Is your relationship with money one of your areas of greatest pain?

For me, money was one of the most painful, challenging, and persistent issues in my life. My relationship with money has caused me shame, pain, disempowerment, and fear. I have felt like a scared and powerless, little girl who cowered and hid when anything with Money showed up in my life.

More than anything, I wanted to be a Wealthy Woman – a woman who is “wealthy” in every sense of the word (including being financially successful as well).

Yet my goal felt so far away, so unattainable –it felt like I couldn’t become that which I so deeply desired.

Can you relate to this?

What if your relationship with money can be the catalyst for becoming the most magnificent version of who you really, truly are – an empowered woman who lives a fulfilling and prosperous life that you love?

Do YOU want to become a WEALTHY WOMAN?!

Do you want to let go of being a little girl who feels scared about money and life and relationships and creating something powerful for yourself?

Do you want to become an empowered and confident woman who creates the life you want and that it comes to you easily and magically?

Yes?!

Yes!

Then let me share with you the diamonds, pearls of wisdom and gold nuggets that I have received along the way so that they can support and guide you as you choose to empower yourself and transform your life.

1. Create a new Relationship with Money.

• Create a new relationship with Money. Shall I repeat it again?!!! Create a new relationship with Money!

Your relationships are the garden from which you create your life. If all you have is weeds and rocks in your garden, then that is all you are going to get.

If your relationships are not working, change these relationships. Chances are (since you are on this website reading this) that your relationship with money is one of those challenging and painful areas. Once again, create a new and empowering relationship with money.

In fact, do more than that. Create a new relationship with money that is loving, positive, rewarding, fun, delicious, caring, reciprocal, safe…

How…?

• Receive masterful coaching by a certified Financial Alchemy coach who can assist you in creating and nurturing this new relationship.

Be sure to develop and nurture this new relationship – just like any relationship that lights you up. How? It’s actually quite simple:

1. Talk with your new Money daily – and take action! Just do it! For a week, a month – just see what happens.
2. Be grateful for everything that shows up in your life – give thanks, give thanks, give thanks.
3. With passion, excitement and happiness, affirm ”I LOVE MONEY & MONEY LOVES ME!” often, frequently and more!
4. Have fun with this enlivening relationship! Be a great relationship partner!

• Use the Financial Alchemy workbook. Use every page and let it support you to truly, deeply, powerfully create the life of your dreams. It is a wonderful resource.

• Receive ongoing coaching to keep your new relationship and your dreams and intentions alive and thriving!

2. Choose who and what you want to be.

With your new relationship with Money, you will become more empowered and clear about who you really are and what you really want – in all areas of your life -so make so new, empowering choices that reflect your personal growth and development.

• Become aware of what your life theme has been. How? Look at your life and see what has shown up. For years, the theme of my life had been “Poor Me – poor little girl.”

• Choose a new, empowering, engaging theme. Make it simple. Create a strong, clear image for yourself.

Allow this choice, this decision to be a WEALTHY WOMAN to call you into becoming who you really, truly, deeply are – easily, effortlessly and powerfully.

3. Clear and Create from Beauty

Next, you get to clear all the clutter, stuff and unnecessary baggage that lie between you and that vision of who you are becoming. This means you get to clear out and get rid of the garbage.

You can start either on the internal or the external level. It really doesn’t matter since each reflects the other. Work on them simultaneously – then you get the benefits of synergy from working on them both.

4. Be Impulsive!

Being impulsive means that when you are moved to do something… when that quiet little voice says, “Do this”…..YOU DO IT! No questions asked, no thoughts that think “Why…?” JUST DO IT. I took this on as an internal commitment about 6 months ago, and the results have been magical!

Don’t be attached to the results – sometimes when I get a nudge to get in touch with one person, a completely other person gets in touch with me and something magical happens for us!

This is you acting on your INTUITION – one of the most valuable tools you have as a WEALTHY WOMAN. In fact, I believe it is an essential tool and that you won’t be a WEALTHY WOMAN without it. And, we all have intuition…yes, we all do.

You just get to be impulsive…and act on those impulses without hesitation.

5. Use your life and its circumstances as a CATALYST and opportunity for change and growth.

Use your life – all of it – as fodder for growth and change. Nothing happens by accident and there are no coincidences. Life is a series of synchronicities to support you in aligning with your higher purpose and your most magnificent self.

If you lose your job, or your marriage, what opportunity is there for you to open up and receive the gifts? If you have particular challenges or issues, lean into them to glean the gold.

Our lives are all we have – so let’s use them. Every moment, every day is a gift where we get to create. So create! And sometimes, the best creations come out of the messiest, ugliest stuff. We can wallow in it, or we can create with it.

What’s your choice?

6. Create/Expand your CONTAINER.

Everything leading up to this has essentially been about you creating your container as a WEALTHY WOMAN. We have been creating the structures and practices that support you to embody being a WEALTHY WOMAN. It doesn’t do much good to be all of this if you cannot “contain” it. It will just leak out, leaving you where you were before.

I know that this may be a different way of looking at this, but it is really important.

As women, we are like the chalice, the cup that holds the energies of who we are. If there are leaks in it, or the chalice is too small, we would just spill over and leak out our energy. We would become depleted, tired, powerless.

To become cohered, beautiful, expanding containers for our divine, feminine, wealthy energy:

• Have strong boundaries. Say yes when you mean yes, and no when you mean no…and stick to it!
• Observe what depletes you and leaves you feeling tired, unfulfilled, out of balance and disconnected.
• Let go of (back to the Clearing and Creating from Beauty) or change the relationships with anything/anyone that depletes you
• Plug the leaks!
• Take really good care of yourself – go for walks; take a nap; sing; dance, do nothing
• Be grateful!
• Breathe!

Remember, it is not only your capacity for what you can do; it is also your capacity to receive!

7. Be a WEALTHY WOMAN NOW!

Show up fully as a wealthy woman now, no matter what the circumstances. Feel it, believe it, dance it, paint it – whatever you need to do – do it! Be it now!

Stand tall, speak up, laugh loud, love loud!!

2008 coypright.

Read Sarah’s bio at www.abundanceandprosperity.com/sarah-clymer.