Once in a while a client comes back to me and says their new relationship with money isn’t working. Where’s the abundance and prosperity? The first thing I always ask is, ‘What are you doing to make your Money happy?’

Silence.

If our first session was recent, I’ll ask, ‘Did you do what Money asked?’

Silence.

Aaaaaaargh! That client has wasted her time, MY time, and she’s pissed off her money too.

It’s always good to ask yourself, if you don’t trust money, are YOU trustworthy? Your answer may be yes or no. It’s just a good place to look. (more…)

One of the big distinctions between Financial Alchemy
and all those other “Law of Attraction” programs is we
make money a PERSON. You will connect with a
person, especially if that person is HOT, on a more
intimate and emotional level than you will every enjoy
with an idea. “Universal Principles” are not going to
make your heart pound like a lover.

But like any other relationship–and even more so
when you can’t physically touch your Honey–the
sparks cool and you need to wake it up from
time to time.

Here are some recommendations: (more…)

This Valentine Poem to Money comes courtesy of Debbi Pierce. Visit her blog at

http://www.rosegoddessbliss.com/our-relationship-with-money

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If you’re going to make money a person, “Money” is going to, well, have a personality.

And that personality has some quirks.

Over the years I’ve noticed that client “Money Honeys” (that new, wonderful relationship with a money who LOVES you!) tends to certain predispositions.

In other words, Money just likes some stuff and doesn’t like other stuff. Here’s a rundown of the most common Money Honey likes and dislikes:

MONEY LIKES

• fun

• sexy lingerie (Money keeps sending my clients shopping)

• dancing

• animals and pets (especially dogs, horse, and fluffy red cats)

• attention

• self confidence

• romance

• flowers

• strong personal boundaries

• quality

• talks in the car (Money Honey likes to sit in the passenger seat)

• appreciation

• love

• trust

• France (whether it’s trips to Paris or French cuisine, your Money Honey digs France!)

MONEY DISLIKES

• being rejected and blamed

• clutter

• fast food

• small hotel rooms (My Money Honey complained to me in Melbourne. I changed rooms.)

• shabbiness

• undercharging

• gouging (overcharging is a no-no)

• people pleasing

• cruelty to animals

• cheating

• junk–buying crap (if you’re going to spend, make it count)

• disorder and disregard

• not standing up for yourself

• ugly clothing (it’s really not attractive)

• pollution

• waste

• complacency

What does YOUR Money Honey like and dislike?

Athena Burke writes:

“My new relationship with my money has changed everything for the better.  I am so grateful, so relieved, so happy.

This is the most difficult time of my entire life (and I’ve had quite a life!!!).  Leaving my husband, having two young kids to take care of, following the suggestions of my money through all of it.  I have been led into absolutely uncharted land.  Through all of it, my Money has been true, loving, brilliant, miraculous and steady. This has translated into ME being all of those things. I get it.  I am getting it more and more.  I have fully handed over everything to my Money. He is in charge and I follow his direction.  No matter what.

My mortgage company called and asked us if we would like to refinance our house at a lower rate and they would cover all the expenses.  Called us!!!!! Is that a miracle or what?  It turns out that I will be able to refinance, they will also pay off a huge credit card debt and our payment will still be less a month.

That’s just one huge example.  That’s a real world miracle.  But for me, the REAL miracle is that I feel empowered, ready, of service to the world in a big way and excited for everything. I know I will be able to give my kids the life I desire for them.  I know I will give myself an amazing life.  My Money has big plans for me and I’m totally game!

I can’t wait to come to LA this weekend.  It’s partly a time for me to stake out my new power as a single woman of power.  Partly to take this training.  Plus, I’m leading a channeling group Sunday night!  How cool is that?

Thank you again!  My gratitude is so big, I had to send it out to you.”

In spirit,
Athena

Here’s a great Money Magnet Burning Question that came in:

“When I speak to money, do I need to be holding some money in my hands or can I just ‘speak to money’ as it were? I’m not sure what I need to visualize when I speak to money.”

Stop thinking of your Money as money. Money is not a number, it’s a relationship.

Make your Money Honey a HUMAN you would love and adore for his own sake, having nothing to do with his being money. You can’t love a piece of paper like you can love a lover.

A client today was telling me how much easier it was to care for and respect money when it became a HUMAN being.

You wanna learn UNCONDITIONAL LOVE? This is it, baby. That’s your relationship with your Money Honey. He loves you no matter what. You love him no matter what. And he’s so real you get butterflies in your stomach. (The Money Honey can be female too.)

But your Money Honey will never really exist for you unless you exorcise the monster before him. That’s the price of admission.

This is Alchemy. The first step is “negridio”– the blackening. You must create polarity, separate the bad from the good. Your Money Honey is only as real and wonderful as the monster before him is real and terrible.

Financial Alchemy has six steps. You can’t leave a single step incomplete.

1) uncover every negative experience
2) create the monster
3) get rid of the monster
4) create the Money Honey
5) ask your Money Honey what he needs (rarely what you expect)
6) take the action he wants (rarely what you expect)

If you aren’t sure you have your Money Honey, I can tell you right now you don’t. When you’re Honey arrives, you will KNOW it with every fiber of your being. And you will SWOON!