Are you a Wealthy Woman?

Have you read books, gone to workshops, done “prosperity work”, said affirmations, and worked on your issues with money?
Has anything changed…really changed?
Have you even gotten close to the crux of what was going on?
Are you a Wealthy Woman or are you still trying to “figure it out”?

In Morgana Rae’s Financial Alchemy workbook, Morgana says that the “area of your greatest pain may be the key to what you want the most.”

Is your relationship with money one of your areas of greatest pain?

For me, money was one of the most painful, challenging, and persistent issues in my life. My relationship with money has caused me shame, pain, disempowerment, and fear. I have felt like a scared and powerless, little girl who cowered and hid when anything with Money showed up in my life.

More than anything, I wanted to be a Wealthy Woman – a woman who is “wealthy” in every sense of the word (including being financially successful as well).

Yet my goal felt so far away, so unattainable –it felt like I couldn’t become that which I so deeply desired.

Can you relate to this?

What if your relationship with money can be the catalyst for becoming the most magnificent version of who you really, truly are – an empowered woman who lives a fulfilling and prosperous life that you love?

Do YOU want to become a WEALTHY WOMAN?!

Do you want to let go of being a little girl who feels scared about money and life and relationships and creating something powerful for yourself?

Do you want to become an empowered and confident woman who creates the life you want and that it comes to you easily and magically?

Yes?!

Yes!

Then let me share with you the diamonds, pearls of wisdom and gold nuggets that I have received along the way so that they can support and guide you as you choose to empower yourself and transform your life.

1. Create a new Relationship with Money.

• Create a new relationship with Money. Shall I repeat it again?!!! Create a new relationship with Money!

Your relationships are the garden from which you create your life. If all you have is weeds and rocks in your garden, then that is all you are going to get.

If your relationships are not working, change these relationships. Chances are (since you are on this website reading this) that your relationship with money is one of those challenging and painful areas. Once again, create a new and empowering relationship with money.

In fact, do more than that. Create a new relationship with money that is loving, positive, rewarding, fun, delicious, caring, reciprocal, safe…

How…?

• Receive masterful coaching by a certified Financial Alchemy coach who can assist you in creating and nurturing this new relationship.

Be sure to develop and nurture this new relationship – just like any relationship that lights you up. How? It’s actually quite simple:

1. Talk with your new Money daily – and take action! Just do it! For a week, a month – just see what happens.
2. Be grateful for everything that shows up in your life – give thanks, give thanks, give thanks.
3. With passion, excitement and happiness, affirm ”I LOVE MONEY & MONEY LOVES ME!” often, frequently and more!
4. Have fun with this enlivening relationship! Be a great relationship partner!

• Use the Financial Alchemy workbook. Use every page and let it support you to truly, deeply, powerfully create the life of your dreams. It is a wonderful resource.

• Receive ongoing coaching to keep your new relationship and your dreams and intentions alive and thriving!

2. Choose who and what you want to be.

With your new relationship with Money, you will become more empowered and clear about who you really are and what you really want – in all areas of your life -so make so new, empowering choices that reflect your personal growth and development.

• Become aware of what your life theme has been. How? Look at your life and see what has shown up. For years, the theme of my life had been “Poor Me – poor little girl.”

• Choose a new, empowering, engaging theme. Make it simple. Create a strong, clear image for yourself.

Allow this choice, this decision to be a WEALTHY WOMAN to call you into becoming who you really, truly, deeply are – easily, effortlessly and powerfully.

3. Clear and Create from Beauty

Next, you get to clear all the clutter, stuff and unnecessary baggage that lie between you and that vision of who you are becoming. This means you get to clear out and get rid of the garbage.

You can start either on the internal or the external level. It really doesn’t matter since each reflects the other. Work on them simultaneously – then you get the benefits of synergy from working on them both.

4. Be Impulsive!

Being impulsive means that when you are moved to do something… when that quiet little voice says, “Do this”…..YOU DO IT! No questions asked, no thoughts that think “Why…?” JUST DO IT. I took this on as an internal commitment about 6 months ago, and the results have been magical!

Don’t be attached to the results – sometimes when I get a nudge to get in touch with one person, a completely other person gets in touch with me and something magical happens for us!

This is you acting on your INTUITION – one of the most valuable tools you have as a WEALTHY WOMAN. In fact, I believe it is an essential tool and that you won’t be a WEALTHY WOMAN without it. And, we all have intuition…yes, we all do.

You just get to be impulsive…and act on those impulses without hesitation.

5. Use your life and its circumstances as a CATALYST and opportunity for change and growth.

Use your life – all of it – as fodder for growth and change. Nothing happens by accident and there are no coincidences. Life is a series of synchronicities to support you in aligning with your higher purpose and your most magnificent self.

If you lose your job, or your marriage, what opportunity is there for you to open up and receive the gifts? If you have particular challenges or issues, lean into them to glean the gold.

Our lives are all we have – so let’s use them. Every moment, every day is a gift where we get to create. So create! And sometimes, the best creations come out of the messiest, ugliest stuff. We can wallow in it, or we can create with it.

What’s your choice?

6. Create/Expand your CONTAINER.

Everything leading up to this has essentially been about you creating your container as a WEALTHY WOMAN. We have been creating the structures and practices that support you to embody being a WEALTHY WOMAN. It doesn’t do much good to be all of this if you cannot “contain” it. It will just leak out, leaving you where you were before.

I know that this may be a different way of looking at this, but it is really important.

As women, we are like the chalice, the cup that holds the energies of who we are. If there are leaks in it, or the chalice is too small, we would just spill over and leak out our energy. We would become depleted, tired, powerless.

To become cohered, beautiful, expanding containers for our divine, feminine, wealthy energy:

• Have strong boundaries. Say yes when you mean yes, and no when you mean no…and stick to it!
• Observe what depletes you and leaves you feeling tired, unfulfilled, out of balance and disconnected.
• Let go of (back to the Clearing and Creating from Beauty) or change the relationships with anything/anyone that depletes you
• Plug the leaks!
• Take really good care of yourself – go for walks; take a nap; sing; dance, do nothing
• Be grateful!
• Breathe!

Remember, it is not only your capacity for what you can do; it is also your capacity to receive!

7. Be a WEALTHY WOMAN NOW!

• Show up fully as a wealthy woman now, no matter what the circumstances. Feel it, believe it, dance it, paint it – whatever you need to do – do it! Be it now!

Stand tall, speak up, laugh loud, love loud!!

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Read Sarah’s bio at www.abundanceandprosperity.com/sarah-clymer.

Financial Alchemy Coach
Sarah Hoskin Clymer

The biggest, most troubling issue of my life has been with money. I have read books, gone to workshops, done “prosperity work”, said affirmations, and worked on my issues with money for years. Nothing changed, and I felt like I never got even close to the crux of what was going on.

And then I came across an email that shared about Financial Alchemy™. Before I knew it, I was impulsively going to the website and signing up to receive some materials and a session. What was I doing?! I mean, what was I doing spending money…spending more money to understand money?

Thank God I did. It was in listening to the Financial Alchemy CDs, doing the exercises in the workbook, and having a session with Morgana (or a Financial Alchemy coach) that I finally got it… I finally understood that I was in an abusive relationship with money, and that it was my relationship that was the issue. I was in relationship that was based on shame and pain. So no wonder everything I did to “improve” my relationship with money only ended up with my feeling even more pain and shame.

Through Financial Alchemy, I was able to create a whole new relationship with money. This relationship not only allows me to show up as a wealthy, empowered, successful woman, but gently demands it. And this has in turn rippled out into every area of my life so that I am now a wealthy woman in every sense of the word!

Thank you, Morgana and Financial Alchemy. I am so grateful.

Sarah Hoskin Clymer

What is Financial Alchemy? Here’s what I shared in an interview Steven McCrory did with me for Magical Blend Magazine a while back:

Morgana: what is Financial Alchemy?
Financial Alchemy is the transformation of your relationship with money, and when your inner relationship with money changes, you see the outward results in your life.

What do you mean by relationship with money?
Your relationship with money is as real and dynamic as your relationship with another human being. If you were to say to your wife, “I don’t trust you. You’re going to leave me. You’re the reason I can’t do what I want with my life. You are responsible for war and suffering. You are the root of all evil,” how would that impact your relationship?

Not well.
What if she said those things about you?

I’d feel terrible.
Would you want to stick around someone who said those things?

Probably not.
Exactly. And those are things we say to money all the time. Why would money want to stick around? We push it away with beliefs we may not even know we have. If something is evil and keeps you from happiness, of course you’re going to protect yourself and push it away.

I understand the pushing it away part. Could you explain what you mean about money wanting to stick around?
This is the Alchemy part, the change in the relationship. I make money a person. Making money into a person you want to have a relationship—as opposed to this villain you have to have in your life—creates an emotional resonance instead of an intellectual exercise. And money can speak to you, tell you what you need to do to create a better relationship. It’s magical.

How did you come up with Financial Alchemy?
My own experience. Where else do things come from? For the longest time I struggled with money. As a coach I was helping people sell films and book television series and realize their dreams. But I was uncomfortable talking about my fees and asking to be paid. Can you imagine? Actually I find this dynamic is very common among caring, spiritual, service oriented people. Especially women. Before anything could change, I had to look at my internal relationship with money. I took a look at negative beliefs and experiences I hadn’t thought about in many years. Family members stopped talking to each other for decades because of money. I was embarrassed to live in a two-story home when my friends lived in apartments. I was afraid of being called spoiled, of not being liked. No wonder I pushed money away! I had formed this idea that money got in the way of love. Given a choice, I choose love! If my negative ideas about money became a person, I think my money person would be a big, scary, violent biker who didn’t bathe. Ick. That was my old money. This relationship had to go. So I fired the biker, and I thought about who I would like to have a relationship with. Who would I love to receive from? Meet my new money: a tall, dark, handsome man who wears an elegant tux, carries a bouquet of red roses, and woos me. He loves me, and I want to make this relationship work!

Sounds like me.
You’re married.

Yes I am. What happened when you changed your money guy?
That very month strangers started calling me out of the blue and hiring me. Within six months I had added thirty new clients and started a waiting list and group coaching to handle the overflow.

Wow. Do you have any other success stories?
Every time I do a seminar I get phone calls from attendees with miraculous stories of jobs and contracts and checks coming in that they didn’t expect. The biggest windfall that I heard of was a twenty thousand dollar contract. [note to readers: my current record is $87,000 within a few hours of our first session.] I’ve posted some of the letters on my website at www.howtobeamoneymagnet.com. My own income jumped from $900 to $5000 in one month. I was amazed.

Just by changing your relationship with money?
The key is to keep the conversation with money going. Money isn’t going to rescue you, but money will be your partner. How can you be a better partner to money? What actions can you take to make the relationship better? Action is what makes change real. Keep asking money how I can make the relationship better. I see money as a spiritual teacher who challenges us to be more creative and courageous than we were being. Money is just a metaphor for the universe itself. You can fight the universe or you can seek to learn from it and love it. Especially when it’s challenging. That’s money.

How is your approach different from other prosperity programs?
Nobody else has made money a person. It’s a lot easier to do what needs to be done when you’re in love. I clearly bring a lot more feminine energy to a subject that tends to be very masculine. I think we need both the masculine “doing” energy and the mystery of feminine magic. Abundance and prosperity come from unexpected places…

How do people get Financial Alchemy?
Go to www.howtobeamoneymagnet.com. You can sign up for the next seminar or order a CD. If you only get one thing, I recommend getting the workbook “Financial Alchemy: Twelve Months of Magic and Manifestation.” It’s a combination of Financial Alchemy and my secret system for manifesting all of my goals for the last three years. I use it every day. I know you’ve had great results with it too. Everything’s available at www.howtobeamoneymagnet.com. Remember, your abundance and prosperity serve the world!

This was my response to a coach who was struggling with a client who refused to connect with her emotions in coaching, a client who believed emotions belong in “therapy” instead.

Here’s what I wrote:

There are different styles and different opinions on what we define as “coaching”.

The International Coaches Federation says:
“Professional coaches provide an ongoing partnership designed to help clients produce fulfilling results in their personal and professional lives. Coaches help people improve their performances and enhance the quality of their lives.

Coaches are trained to listen, to observe and to customize their approach to individual client needs. They seek to elicit solutions and strategies from the client; they believe the client is naturally creative and resourceful. The coach’s job is to provide support to enhance the skills, resources, and creativity that the client already has.”

Your clients isn’t wrong in her expectations: ICF doesn’t say a word about emotions. She could probably find a coach out there who only works superficially (not a good coach). Her expectations don’t match your approach. She needs to be educated without making her wrong. I recommend you have a conversation with her about how you work, and why you use your approach.

Here’s an example. I received a great email response from a listener to one of my Financial Alchemy teleclasses. The writer wanted to know why she had to go “down the well” if she already knew her limiting beliefs.

The first step of Financial Alchemy coaching is to take a client down the rabbit hole, much farther than they knew was there. This may look counterintuitive–isn’t the point of the process to reconnect clients to the abundance and prosperity of the universe? We have to create POLARITY. The first step of Alchemy is “negridio,” the blackening. It works.

Stuff may show up here around child abuse or other hurts, just by digging into negative memories of money. It’s all related. (For those of you who are freaking out right now and thinking I’m overstepping my role as a coach, my clients are creative, resourceful, and whole. I’m very careful to tune into clients who are not well, and to steer them to something other than coaching. I’ve coached this process hundreds and hundreds of times, and I’ve never had a problem.)

Here’s my “why” for dragging my clients down the well in the beginning, insisting that they set aside every positive thought they have about Money: I’m firing up there neurology for change. Einstein said, “We cannot solve problems with the same consciousness which created them.” Information comes to us and new neurological connections are created during heightened states of emotional excitement. This is NLP talk for why we do process coaching.

Here’s a quick and easy HOW for getting a client out of her head. I do this a lot with professional women in traditionally masculine fields–lawyers, accountants, CPAs. I ask my client to stand with her feet spread as wide as her shoulders, and to bend her knees and rock at her pelvis, as if she were hula dancing. “Speak from your hips,” I’ll say.

There are a few reasons this works–I learned this from a coach who spoke at my local PCMA chapter. She has a book on “Four Energies.” I’m taking clients who are stuck in fire (Just do it!) energy into water (give and take) energy. There’s a whole area of somatic coaching that uses body wisdom.

I suspect your client wants more from coaching than she’s allowing herself, but the last thing you want to do is push when she resists.

thou shalt not hear, see, nor speak any negative vibrations

So there’s this movie that purports to share the biggest secret of the ages, carefully hidden until now, blah blah blah. Don’t get me wrong–this is an immensely uplifting, feel good movie. It has value. And it’s also full of crap. What exactly is their “secret”? It’s not like Think and Grow Rich or The Power of Positive Thinking, or The Law of Attraction have been kept hidden by some cabal of powerful business men. None of this is new, and none of it’s a secret. In fact these are the titles of immensely popular and influential books over the last century.

So what’s the secret?

Esther Hicks found hers and teaches through the voice of Abraham. Wayne Dyer found his and he teaches the Power of Intention. Byron Katie found hers and teaches The Work. I found mine, and I teach Financial Alchemy.

But even these aren’t the secret.

Cause you can do everything “right”–the mantras, the meditations, the visioning, the vibrations, the positive thinking–and not see a change in your circumstances. You’re still waiting for that abundance and prosperity you’ve been promised. Give yourself a break. You’re not doing it wrong. You’re not less worthy. There’s nothing wrong with your vision board. You’re just where you are. Right now. We all take a turn in that dark night of the soul.

“Be a light unto yourself,” the Buddha taught. Take all these teachings in, and take them all with a grain of salt. There’s an old Irish adage that says you have to do your own growing, no matter how tall your grandfather is. Nobody else’s law is your law, not even the Law of Attraction.

I believe in a strong Tendency of Attraction. Don’t get me wrong–I’m all about attraction. I think about something and a few days later it shows up. But a law of attraction? Like always attracts like? Not really:

Twenty four years ago, I was in rapturous love for the first time. I was getting straight A’s and awards in high school. And I had just come home from my first trip to Europe. It was a very high vibration time. Until I was hit by a car, went into a coma, and came out with a serious brain injury that destroyed my life for a few years. I had to let go of everything I knew about spirituality at that time just to survive. In this instance, at least, like did not attract like.

While I may quibble with the Law of Attraction, I choose to believe in a Law of the Highest Good: everything happens for the highest good. Everything. You just have to survive it first.

So what really is “the secret”?

Sure, there’s more and more evidence of a connection between mind and matter. There’s a connection between you and the universe itself. “As above so below” is the first law of Alchemy. How you access and express those connections is unique to you. You have to find it yourself.

What you discover will probably look A LOT like what other people have been saying for the last 10,000 years, but it’s different when it comes from you.

Other stuff will look very different and may be even more important. It’s your contribution. In fact this may be what you’re here to teach so others can discover their own secret.

Every personal discovery changes history forever.

We all have to reinvent the wheel at some level for ourselves. I cannot presume to have your answers, only suggestions. The finger the teacher points at the moon is not the moon itself. That’s the only “law” there is.

It happened again. I had that thought, “I want (what that other person has)! Why don’t I have that?”

Two weeks later it drops into my lap.

Let me give you some background:

In 2006 I saw two of my friends were speaking at a giant expo in Los Angeles. I immediately went into envy mode. I whined to myself, “I want to do that! Why didn’t I think of that?”

Two weeks later I was handed a booth and speaking gig at that very same expo.

Last year I heard that a friend on my book tour was going to be interviewed on ABC-TV in Sacramento. I whined to myself, “I want that! Why don’t I get to be on ABC-TV?” She had a last minute conflict and I ended up taking her place on the interview.

Now I met a guy on facebook. (Really incredible man. I don’t know if it’s cool to mention his name here.) He’s interviewing with a top book agent who only does six figure deals. Same story. I whined to myself, “I want that! Why don’t I have that?”

About two weeks later I went to the American Book Expo and caught the interest of a significant publisher. Since then I’ve been getting the interest of prestigious literary agents. (Now I have to write a book proposal. Another excuse to whine…) I also found a mentor to guide me on getting corporate sponsorships and nonprofit partnerships for my book. Wouldn’t that be cool?

But really, this happens ALL THE TIME.

I’m thinking about why this works. Shouldn’t whining and envy and self-pity be low vibration and repellant?

Apparently not.

I think, perhaps, it works because I don’t obsess about this stuff. It plants an idea in my head of what’s possible. And then I DON’T WORK AT IT! All I have to do is whine, resent that I don’t have something too, then move on.

And then be ready to do whatever must be done when the opportunity arises, but in the meanwhile I’m focusing on other stuff.

This approach hasn’t worked with romance. If it had, I’d be dating Clive Owen.

Any thoughts or theories or connections to Clive Owen?

Cllive Owen