Nature’s intelligence functions with effortless ease…with carefreeness, harmony and love. And when we harness the forces of harmony, joy and love, we create success and good fortune with effortless ease.
~ Dr. Deepak Chopra

Want to attract abundance? Feeling good is irrestibly attractive. Try these easy tricks from neuro linguistic programming for a quick emotional pick-me-up.

We all have those days: someone dinged your car, the computer crashed, or that person who knows how to push your buttons… pushed your buttons! Know what I’m talking about? Usually it’s not the events themselves that are so devastating; it’s our reaction that does the damage. It’s hard to tap into your wisdom and creativity when you are feeling stressed out, pissed off, or helpless. It’s really hard to attract what you want when you want to blow up the world. Try these quick and easy tricks from neuro linguistic programming to feel good fast.

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When you stand in who you are without apology, when you are fully and fearlessly authentic, you will REPEL people. You will scare them off! This is wonderful. The more you clear out the people who don’t like or understand or appreciate you and your products, the EASIER it is for your fans to find you. If you aren’t repelling anyone, you’re not doing your job!

You’ll never please people who are not “your people,” but you can divert your energy and your self respect by trying to make everybody your friend or customer. Cut them loose. Instead of trying to persuade people who don’t want to be persuaded, embrace scaring them off.

They aren’t your customers and they aren’t your friends. Self respect is very attractive to good health, wealth, and love.

Your naysayers may come around on their own. Focus on your fans.

I’ve noticed the more “professional” I try to sound, the more invisible I become. I sound like everybody else. I disappear. My conversation partner’s eyes glaze over then dash around for something of more interest.

As soon as I let loose and say something outrageous like “I’m the Money Magic Queen,” people wake up. “Really?” they ask. “What’s that?” I end up with more relationship and credibility than if I’d just stuck to the usual credentials (author, trainer, international speaker, certified coach).

The more authentic you are, the more visible you’ll be to your people, just like the full moon coming out from the shadow of the eclipse.

Yes, it’s scary. Many people will tell you that you can’t afford to lose the snakes! It takes a leap of faith to trust in the attractiveness of who you are when you’re not pleasing others.

It happened again. I had that thought, “I want (what that other person has)! Why don’t I have that?”

Two weeks later it drops into my lap.

Let me give you some background:

In 2006 I saw two of my friends were speaking at a giant expo in Los Angeles. I immediately went into envy mode. I whined to myself, “I want to do that! Why didn’t I think of that?”

Two weeks later I was handed a booth and speaking gig at that very same expo.

Last year I heard that a friend on my book tour was going to be interviewed on ABC-TV in Sacramento. I whined to myself, “I want that! Why don’t I get to be on ABC-TV?” She had a last minute conflict and I ended up taking her place on the interview.

Now I met a guy on facebook. (Really incredible man. I don’t know if it’s cool to mention his name here.) He’s interviewing with a top book agent who only does six figure deals. Same story. I whined to myself, “I want that! Why don’t I have that?”

About two weeks later I went to the American Book Expo and caught the interest of a significant publisher. Since then I’ve been getting the interest of prestigious literary agents. (Now I have to write a book proposal. Another excuse to whine…) I also found a mentor to guide me on getting corporate sponsorships and nonprofit partnerships for my book. Wouldn’t that be cool?

But really, this happens ALL THE TIME.

I’m thinking about why this works. Shouldn’t whining and envy and self-pity be low vibration and repellant?

Apparently not.

I think, perhaps, it works because I don’t obsess about this stuff. It plants an idea in my head of what’s possible. And then I DON’T WORK AT IT! All I have to do is whine, resent that I don’t have something too, then move on.

And then be ready to do whatever must be done when the opportunity arises, but in the meanwhile I’m focusing on other stuff.

This approach hasn’t worked with romance. If it had, I’d be dating Clive Owen.

Any thoughts or theories or connections to Clive Owen?

Cllive Owen